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As many of you are aware, Ross Jeffries, Creator of Speed Seduction, was recently on the dr. phil (quack, quack) show…..And I’m trying to be nice here, but phil really should stick to interviewing mentally ill, drug addicted superstars in the mental ward.  He just can’t match witts with the likes of Ross Jeffries.

I just got this email from Ross Jeffries on what “dr.” phil had cut out of the show – what phil DOESN’T want you to know about RJ’s appearance on that show.

Thanks to Ross Jeffries for allowing me to reprint the email here for you.  Read it, and then click through to his blog and check out the hole story.

Dear Speed Seducer In Training,

You may be aware that I was on the Dr. Phil show a couple
of weeks ago.

I’m sure you are NOT aware of what they edited out of the
show!

You can find the whole story here on my blog:

    http://getresponse.net/t/11465368/270674/113488187/2/

RJ

Ross Jeffries
6245 Bristol Parkway #275
Culver City
CA 90230
United States

The Mystery Method, Ross Jeffries, and a woman who aparently had more money than common sense were on the Dr. Phil show Friday.  I wrote a free report about it, and you can access it here: www.thepickupartistreviews.com/isseductionunfairtowomen.pdf .

Feel free to post your comments regarding the report or the show, however keep them respectful, and, of course, no spam allowed.

Have fun!

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
www.mindcontrolresources.com
www.dreaminvaders.com

Look, you and I know there are some sleeze balls in the seduction community.  There are guys out there who flat out take unfair advantage of women and who betray their trust and their emotions.

So that means all guys who study and learn seduction techniques are low-life scum bags, right?

That’s what SOME would have you think.

But what happens when you turn the tables?

What about the women who jerk men around, who play on their emotions, and play them for fools?

So is it “ok” to take advantage of women just because SOME of them are doing it to men?

Look, bub, we’re supposedly dealing with “grown adults” here who know how to make their own decisions.  There are good decisions and there are bad decisions.

Learn how to calibrate for yourself.

This goes for BOTH sides of the seduction process, by the way:  For the one doing the seducing AND for the one being seduced.

There are always some “holier-than-thou’s” out there who will try to bash anyone who learns seduction skills.

They’ll try to tell you it’s immoral, that it takes unfair advantage of women…

Yet those same people don’t give it a second thought when they use sex in their own relationships to manipulate their spouses.

They don’t give it a second thought when they “wait for the right one” and then sell their bodies for a $10,000 ring.  (Then again, some of them think they’re only worth a $2,000 ring…)

If only Elliot Spitzer had known….

It’s “ok” to spend lots of money on dates and presents to get sex….

Right, bub…

See, look hear now.  When you LIKE someone, and you are ATTRACTED to them, you present yourself in a way that also allows them to be more attracted to you.  Or at least that’s the idea.  Some are better at it than others.

When you LIKE someone, you do things to make them feel good.

THAT is seduction.

It’s a way to help people enjoy an emotional (and perhaps also physical) connection with each other.

By the way, seduction doesn’t have to end in sex.  In fact, those who are really good at it are better at the selection process.

Now I’m not talking about “yeah, she was a 7 or an 8, an I only go for 9′s and 10′s.”

It’s like Mark Cunningham has said before, “Find out what ABOUT her has ‘ten-ness’.”

Or as my friend Dr. John M. La Tourrette (www.mentaltrainingsecrets.com) says, you look for what you LIKE AND APPRECIATE about them.

And when you like and appreciate someone, the dressing up nice, the makeup and going to the hair salon (how many of you ladies out there who are against seduction have makeup on, have a nice manicure, are wearing nice or even sexy clothes, and have a nice hair do?????  THAT is a form of seduction….), the things you do to make YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON feel good together are actually a VALUABLE GIFT THAT YOU SHARE TOGETHER!

That is seduction.

But you say there are sleeze balls out there and slime bags and yada, yada, yada…

Well, you’re an adult.  You’re responsible for your decisions.

And I’ll admit there are a LOT of bitter, pissed off people out there trying to even the score by taking advantage of as many people as they can.

Of course, they do reap what they sow.

There are guys out there who use hypnotic conditioning to install fear, doubt, and insecurity in order to keep a woman in a relationship.

But there are women doing the very same thing, and also using sex and emotional disapproval and guilt trips to take advantage of men.

Those people, whether they’re male or female, are no better than the assholes from that polygamist sect down at the Yearn for Zion Ranch, a 1,700 acre compound in Eldorado, Texas, owned by the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which is a a polygamous sect.

You know, that sect started by Warren Jeffs…

Anyway, they conditioned girls (and boys) from birth and basically brain-washed them.  Installed fear, guilt, and took unfair sexual advantage of them.

Yeah, you heard me right; I said those who take advantage of someone they’re in a relationship with and use guilt trips, coercion, and withold “favors” in order to manipulate the person they’re with are no better than the wackos at that compound.

Now having said that, why DO people learn seduction skills.

Well, most of us learn seduction skills so we can create the kinds of GOOD FEELINGS in others so we can enjoy something together that we otherwise wouldn’t have had the opportunity to share.

And that’s what YOU do too, if you’re honest with yourself; it’s just that some of the people reading this are better at it than others.

See, REAL seduction skills is as much about lighting yourself up on the inside so that you BECOME and BE the type of person that you and others just naturally like and are attracted to anyway.

(We’ll deal with the “why don’t you just be yourself” topic later on…)

So the next time you try to think about bashing someone else for learning and using seduction skills, go look in the mirror first.

A good look in the mirror is where GENUINE seduction skills start anyway.

Stay tuned for more real good stuff.

Have fun now, ya hear…

Jim Knippenberg
www.mindcontrolresources.com

I guess hell just froze over.  I’m going to have to watch the “Dr. Phil” show.

Dr. Phil is scheduled to have a show this week on The Mystery Method and also to have an interview with Ross Jeffries.

Should be interesting.  Gee, I hope Phil handles this better than his attempted “helping” of Britney Spears.

Golly, I can’t wait to see how this thing plays out.  Ross Jeffries really does have the INTELLIGENT person’s methods of seduction so YOU AND HER (and maybe even her friends!) ENJOY THE SEDUCTION.

Most people get a Ross Jeffries course and just try to memorize the pickup lines and patterns, and that sure works.

But most of them never stop to do the exercises to pick apart the language patterns so you can actually transform yourself in to the person you want to be-come.

You might also be surprised at how damn good he is at hypnotic language if you were to actually do the exercises and then listen for how he incorporates the material in to the way he teaches.

I bought the deluxe home study course a long time ago, and I listened to it so many times in the first 4 or 5 months that I wore the tapes out.

And I damn near wore my fingers out writing the language patterns.  I got tired of pulling over in to a parking lot every time I had an idea to write down, so I had to get a small tape recorder too.

One of the interesting things I noticed was that just by LISTENING to the tapes, women started to respond differently to me.

Anywho…..I guess I’ll have to watch the damn show. 

If I do, I’ll be sure to tell you about it…

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
www.dreaminvaders.com
www.mindcontrolresources.com

I really LIKE what Mystery said in his book about having fun activities to do, things you find fun and enjoyable, AND to take pictures to carry with you, so women know you actually have a life outside of chasing skirts.

It’s a form of social proof.

There’s an even MORE important reason to do what YOU enjoy doing…

This is about having choice and designing the kind of life YOU want to live.

I know it’s an old book, and some would say the tactics are old and the lines are cheesy compared to what he uses now, but the strategies are straight-on, in your face, and just as valid today as they were several years ago…  In Ross Jeffries book on Speed Seduction “How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed” Ross says “a life spent doing nothing but chasing women is a pretty stupid one.” (p. 11)

Ha that book brings back memories…

I’ll tell you sometime about the hateful stare I got from some prude at Barnes & Noble when I asked for that book. hahahaha

Anyway, instead of trying to get approval from women, why not FIRST choose and create the type of life YOU want to live.

Let’s face it, that’s why many of us got involved in seduction in the first place…

Have fun!  Stay tuned for more…

Jim Knippenberg
www.dreaminvaders.com “Seduce Her While She Sleeps!”

Can you believe they actually made a TV SHOW about pickup artists…  Won’t that mean everyone who uses pickup tactics or uses seduction techniques will be discovered?  Won’t we “get caught” and “shot down” now that everyone knows?

Well, first off, bucko, women aren’t stupid…

Well, ok, some of them are.  But then again…

Look, if you’re just copying and mimmicking someone else to use a technique here and another technique there, then, sure you’ll get caught.

But if you’re not “doing” something to women, and instead you are simply living your life in ways that are important and meaningful for you, and you happen to come along some woman or group of women who you choose to share your company with, then you never have to worry about “getting caught”.

The book The Mystery Method (yeah, I know that’s not Mystery’s website anymore, and he’s no longer there) has a basic plan, that if you follow it, it’s simple enough, and NO one is going to go in the middle of the conversation, “Oh, wait, this guy is in the attraction phase…”  Not if you really got their attention, anyway.

Now, I do got to admit there are some things that are just … well, to put it nicely, they’re bullshit…

For example, if you got to LIE to a woman to get a conversation started with her, then good for you if you get “caught”.

You don’t have to make up some lame ass story about “Hay, did you see those two girls fighting outside, and one of their boobies popped out!”

And you don’t have to make an ass of yourself either…  (More on peacocking vs. trying to compensate for being a pea-sized cock in another post…)

I remember back when I was on Ross Jeffries’ Speed Seduction email list, and some of the guys would get upset if they thought women had heard their pickup lines before.

But the ones who actually used the materials on themselves FIRST, and used the materials to improve themselves were never worried, because they actually had the SKILLS to come up with new patterns, new ways of looking at things, that perhaps no one had ever mentioned before.

Anyway, if you’re worried about “getting caught,” then perhaps you need to re-evaluate your training methods.

Because you CAN’T get caught being the person you chose to be.

(I’ll save the lame-assed “just be yourself” advice people throw around for a different post…)

Anyway, there’s YET ANOTHER set of presuppositions in the fear that you won’t be able to meet women if they’ve seen the show The Pickup Artist or if they’ve found out about other seduction methods….And THAT faulty presupposition will do more to harm your chances with women than any “reality show” on tv…

What’s the presupposition?

That seduction is somehow “trickery” and that women don’t like to be seduced.

One of the neat things I learned from Ross Jeffries is every woman (the sane ones, anyway) wants to be seduced….And it’s YOUR job to figure out how to give her what she craves.

See, women like to be seduced; they DON’T like to be mind-fucked or screwed over.

Oh, you mean, women are actually PEOPLE, just like you and me?  Wow…

Maybe even someone you could learn to like, respect, and have fun with instead of trying to “trick them in to the sack…”

And if you watch what the best pick up artists do, you’ll find that they are successful to the extent that they are able to CONNECT with and CREATE the emotions women want to experience.

And when you can do that, you don’t have to worry about getting caught.

One of the things I find so hillarious (and intelligent) about Ross Jeffries is how he’s actually OVERT with what he does; he doesn’t even try to hide it; it’s right there out in the open.

Never have to worry about getting caught when they already agree they want what you got.

Anywho, we’ll pick up this topic again in the future…

Stay tuned.

Jim Knippenberg
www.dreaminvaders.com
www.mindcontrolresources.com

“Oh my God!  He’s going to have Mystery talking in his ear the whole time!  He’s GOT to score now!”

Right…

It’s funny how many of my friends all bitched about “Geeeezzzz… How could you NOT pick a chick up when you got someone else talking in your ear telling you what to do…”

And NONE of those friends can talk on the phone when they’re out somewhere talking with someone else or walking their dogs or shopping…

Take it up a notch, and go in to a noisy club…

Hey, try it out for yourself.  Put your phone earpiece in your ear, go somewhere loud, and try paying attention to a conversation with someone WHILE you got another person talking in your ear.

Ain’t as easy as you think, bub.

Especially for those of us who have strong auditory strategies and are easily overloaded by too much auditory stimulus.

Perhaps the sounds of female orgasm might have been a good coach–at least it would put you in a more fun state of mind.  But then again, I can make those noises inside my head without the earpiece.

Try it for yourself…Go loop some female orgasm sounds and memorize them, mimmick them, and actually FEEL them…

And then go out and play those sounds inside your head while you talk with people.

If nothing else it will drown out all the negative, defeating “self-talk” that most of us go through when we are in a new social situation.

And you might also be surprised at “what else” might happen…

But I’ll write more about that some other time.

Have fun for now.

Jim Knippenberg
www.dreaminvaders.com “Secretly Seduce Her While She Sleeps!”